Yo. After I stopped PvPing, some red names asked why. This was around the time one of them made that really long "Why don't you PvP?" thread.
I typed it off the top of my head like two years ago, so it's probably not the smoothest read, and it's pretty long.
Oh, and I put it into a google docs link as not to screw with the formatting.
I probably won't play your game, as I'm not a big MMO person these days, but, good luck!